It's not my fault after all..So move On!

Wasn't it fun putting the blame on someone else, while you were a kid, when one of your friends just got hurt in a group game that you were part of..it still probably is-We, or at least just me, tend to escape responsibilities for anything that goes wrong-it gives you dat immense pleasure when you realize that you just didn't do anything to ruin it!.It was someone or something else dat did it. Hmm.Well, hold you thought or just connect it to how you feel when you just realize dat you have lost out on something. I mean, how do most of us manage to get over failures-in my case, it goes like this-I did the best I cud (at least that's what I feel) and if I got eluded of that oh-so-wonderful-thing called success, then probably it's just not my fault-I mean, there was little else I cud do, so let's move on and start rolling. Right! Honestly, in 90% of the cases, it works. So, you didnt get a call for a job interview-oh it's the slump in the market; no calls from iims-well, it is more about how you perform that day despite whatever futile efforts you have put on; you had a bad day at office-you boss is probably a big jerk (I bet mine is a slightly bigger than yours..duh!) ; hmm ya..all that n more.The point is - there are so many things that one has to live with-failure is just one of them. You got to deal with it. Deal!..Oh..that reminds me of a good example to prove my point. So even if something as big as an entire government of a country like India realizes that it is not living upto the people's concerns of rising prices (read failure!), it finds ways to move on and diverts its efforts in solving other issues, though not immediately urgent, like getting the nuclear 'deal' with America get past its hurdles. Ok, I probably shouldnt have brought up that one. But the point still remains- I mean, when you realize that you have messed up something or lost out on something or got crushed by some thing (whatever that means), then dont just get stuck there and just do you-know-what!. Peace.